When you’re getting down and dirty, sometimes you hit a few bumps along your road to an orgasm. Here are a few tips for having sexy, clean, and orgasmic gay sex!
1. Anal isn’t everything
When you think of gay sex, you probably immediately think of anal. But anal isn’t the end all, be all of gay courtship.
Sometimes you’ll meet someone who falls into the same sexual role as you do, sometimes the idea of all that preparation is just too much, and sometimes you’ll care more about having Mexican for dinner than getting laid.
And that’s fine. You don’t have to have anal to get off or to feel like you’re actually having sex. Exploring one another’s bodies (especially with your mouth) is just as important and just as sensual as anal.
2. Lube is your friend
However, when you do decide to have anal you better have a ton of lube on hand. You can never have too much lube on hand.
If you’ve ever had anal, you know that lube is your best friend. Some days, everything goes smoothly. Other days, however, you might feel a little too… tight. Going slow and lube will help everything fit nicely into place.
Don’t get frustrated with yourself, forcing things along will only make you hate yourself later when you can’t sit straight.
3. Use a condom!
Safe sex is the best sex. Especially if you meet a man on a random gay chat app.
It’s important to protect yourself, especially since – be honest – you’re having a ton of casual sex.
If you’re one of those boys who finds they can never relax during anal, using a condom might help because you might be able to relax a little more knowing that you’re protected. Always use a barrier!
4. Sexuality is a spectrum, not a binary
Top, vers, bottom. These are all words when it comes down to it.
You shouldn’t allow yourself to become defined by these terms, especially if you don’t feel like you belong in either of those boxes.
Understand that sexuality is fluid, understand that it’s okay to want to top one day and bottom the next, understand that you don’t have to stay inside a neatly labeled box.
5. On fats, fems, and Asians
While some people claim that they’re not into fats, fems, or Asians because it’s a “personal preference”, it’s starting to seem more and more like cloaked racism. If you’re with a guy or around friends who are anti-fat, anti-fem, anti-Asian call them on their bullshit.
Sexuality is fluid, so don’t start limiting your attraction with these kinds of terms either. It’s okay to be into white guys or tall guys or hairy guys, but it’s not okay to state that you’re disinterested in an entire race of people.
6. Open relationships can actually work
Open relationships are huge in the gay community. However, some people question if they can really work. And yes, they can! If you do them right and with your partner’s consent. Poly is hard, so make sure that your relationship is ready for it!
7. Trim your nails!!!!
Men, you have some serious trouble with this. Before you put your fingers in any holes, trim your nails!
The last thing you want to do is scratch inside someone and cause an infection
Move over skinny girls, BBWs are here to claim their crown as queens of the bedroom.
More so than ever, BBWs are in high demand when it comes to intimate activity. Society has us thinking that it’s the ‘normal’-sized girls who guys chase down in clubs, bars and on online dating apps, but this isn’t the case at all. Big beautiful women are more desired than ever, and one of the main reasons is because they come with advantages which skinny girls don’t.
There’s a little more of everything
Sure, it might not be guaranteed that a BBW girl is going to have huge boobs and a curvy behind, but the odds swing greatly in their favor. One of the most appealing things about BBW girls is their naturally-busty chest. If a skinny girl has large breasts, there’s a good chance they’ve been enhanced – something which turns a lot of guys off, according to recent surveys.
BBWs offer a little more to grab during sex. More ass, more boobs. How could that ever be a bad thing?
They have more confidence in the bedroom
One of the most popular reasons why guys like BBW girls is because of their carefree nature. And of course, this translates to the bedroom too. Sex with a BBW is like having an access-all-areas pass to the realm of sexual exploration. Because they’re more relaxed when it comes to life in general, they’re not scared to try new things.
For example, if you’re dating the kind of woman is obsessed with their image, they’re going to be so worried about their slight imperfections that they’ll be too afraid to bare all in the bedroom. Even the slightest mole or the faintest stretch mark might make a self-conscious skinny girl lose her sexual appetite.
By contrast, most BBWs have come to terms with the size and shape of their figures. The majority of them are okay with having curves, and they’re not afraid to show it during times of intimacy.
Beauty isn’t about shape or size, it’s about confidence.
They like to indulge
Ask yourself this question: What’s more important – other people’s perceptions of you, or enjoying life to the fullest?
Ask any vain, skinny, wannabe-model this question and they’ll tell you that other people’s perceptions of them are the most important thing in the world. These kind of girls spend their lives in the gym, eat nothing but salad and avoiding the fun things in life just to impress strangers on social media. They’ll never leave the house without spending three hours applying make-up and they’ll throw a tantrum if their selfies don’t get at least twenty likes.
And in twenty years, when they realize that nobody really cares about their selfies, make-up and toned butt cheeks, they’ll have wished that they’d have spent their time indulging a little more.
Luckily, BBWs have already realized that life is too short to worry about what everyone else thinks of them. This extends to their sexual habits too. Instead of worrying about trying to fit into a pair of size 6 trousers, they’ll focus their intention of giving their partners the best sex possible. They’re more likely to forego the gym in favour of having sex all day.
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The SP101 is an incredible revolver that is now available in a bunch of different calibers. When it shoots to the point and contains shoot capabilities of a revolver, there’s really no way that you can go wrong. The best choice for this gun, is the .357 Magnum cartridge all due to its amazing stopping ability. Although, the .327 Mag and .38 SP work well, too, if you don’t need as much recoil. Speaking of the one on deck for the hardest hitter, its cylinder is able to hold five rounds, and is provided with either an external or an internal hammer, which is perfect if you decide to conceal carry it. These revolvers can weigh only 25 ounces, while sometimes some can be heavier, based on barrel length, and are easily movable around your home if need be. MSRP isn’t too bad at $719, and probably a little bit cheaper than they are in stores. You get a solid revolver gun , that comes with an amazing reputation backed by one of the best companies in the gun business. You can’t go wrong with this pick. Get your hands on one today.
2.) FNX 45
If you are in the market for a handgun with a large capacity magazine, that also just happens to magically be chambered in .45 ACP, then look no further than the FNX 45. With its fully controls meant for lefties and righties, 15 round magazines which are also available with 10 for you poor old things in California, and hard-hitting ammunition that is definitely sure to get the job done. Even better than that, this contains a MIL-STD accessory rail to install that flashlight or rail-mounted laser on top for easier target discovery.The FNX 45 isn’t exactly cheap with an MSRP of $824, but you might be able to find it cheaper than that in the shop. Plus, this gun comes with a couple of different back-strap options so you can make sure it’s comfortable in the grip of your hand. That, along with the DA/SA trigger and safety and decocker help make this a perfect addition to this list. You can get your hands on this gun in any store today.
1. ) Smith And Wesson
A lot like the Taurus Judge, which is also a great and reputable hand gun, this handy dandy adorable revolver shoots .45 Colt and .410 shot shells. It receives a bit of a one up on the Judge, but, in that it holds six shots, and adds one more cartridge to the mix with the .45 ACP. It needs moon clips in order to do so, but the one simple note that it can also hold John Browning’s world famous self-defense cartridge makes it definitely worth of being number one on this list.
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